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Shoutbox not allowing posts
Could not see this mentioned already so I thought I should let you know that the shoutbox is not allowing posts at the moment. I type in a comment, hit enter and it just vanishes.
No need to reply to me - just letting you know
Thanks and I hope you all have a great Christmas...
By the way ... no offense or judgement intended. I've just noticed that sometimes one can get so focused on how to get something done that one forgets to ask why one wants to get it done. If the shoutbox is a big deal to you, I'm not saying that you're wrong for feeling that way about it.
I'm just saying that when you have this problem you can't fix, sometimes you can save yourself an ulcer by asking yourself how much of a problem it is, for you. If some online backbiting got you banned from a chatroom where you should be free to post, maybe you might feel a little happier if you ask yourself a simple question.
"Is this my loss, or theirs?"
You lose the company of people who just treated you shabbily, and they lose the company of somebody who cared enough to ask about something like this. While this was not the intention of the person who got you banned or banned you, it seems to me that you're the one who comes out on top, in this situation.
But only you can decide that for yourself, of course.